Throughout my life the conversation has come up, “what do you hope to be remembered for when you’re gone?”

It’s always been a thought provoking conversation or private thought process.

I can talk about what I want to be remembered for, in being a caring supportive person in my personal world and Lady Flava. Also, I’m sure people may say that I’m highly sensitive or maybe even critical. One thing I do know is I am a person of my word and will do anything within reason for those that matter to me.

But it is up to the people who experience us and their perception…how we think we come across maybe far from how others see us…or maybe it has to do with the relationship we have with them. Perception is a good word and how we make the person feel.

I am thinking about this right now, because someone just past that I have a forever connection to, but not a good relationship with when we were connected and non existing when we distance the relationship.

The memories are not good, although we had moments that were enjoyable…but I believe now, that I never trusted the good because the bad was just around the corner.

It’s sad when someone lives a life in such a way that it leaves a negative impact on so many people. We all free it was such a loss that they never held themselves accountable for their actions and treatment of others to the point that they could mindfully change to be able to build healthy relationships with family and friends.

Now, this person is gone and myself along with others are not sure how to process this loss…I do believe that we all pray that his soul will rest in peace.

It’s very new, October 2, 2023 at 5pm and I know this will just be a process. I tell my loved ones to just be good to themselves and I am here. I will be mindful to be good to myself too.

How do you process the death of someone who was not a good person to you, but you are forever connected?

May God have mercy on your Soul 🙏

LadyFlava of LadyFlavaNews

Processing The Death Of A Permanent Connection