🌻 “Four Out of a Hundred: A Perspective Shift”

A hard situation took place.

One that challenged my heart, my trust, and how I show up in a place I once felt safe.

It rattled me—deeply.

There were accusations, misunderstandings, and conversations that were never allowed to be complete.

People I trusted suddenly changed how they saw me.

Decisions were made behind closed doors.

And for a moment—

I let the weight of those few people define the atmosphere I walked into each day.

But then I took a breath.

I processed.

I reflected.

I asked questions, I listened inward, and I told the truth—my truth.

And in the quiet space that followed, I remembered something vital:

There are only four people who made me feel bad—out of a hundred who have always seen me, valued me, and respected me.

That is not balance.

That is distortion.

That is the pain speaking louder than the peace—until I quieted myself enough to shift my focus.

✨ The Moment That Shifted Everything

Dr. David didn’t know what I was holding that day.

But after I left the clinic, his nurse shared something that made me pause:

“Susan needs to come by the clinic more,” he said.

Just a simple statement.

But in that moment, it cracked something open in me.

It reminded me that I am still seen—not just by patients and coworkers, but by people I deeply respect.

People who feel my presence and miss it when it’s gone.

People who reflect my light back to me when I’m questioning whether it’s still there.

🌈 Perspective is Power

So no… I will not let four voices drown out the kindness of a hundred.

I will not give that kind of power to misunderstanding, projection, or silence.

I will honor the blessing of:

The nurse who smiles every time she sees me The patient who thanks me for making them feel heard The provider who values how I support their team The coworker who says, “You’re the glue here, Susan” And yes—Dr. David, who simply noticed that I was gone

I have been hurt.

But I have not been erased.

I am healing.

And I am still here.

With peace in my heart, wisdom in my step, and a new understanding of what deserves my energy.

Because blessings are everywhere when you remember to count them.

And I am surrounded by more than I realized. 🌻

Susan K aka Lady Flava

Simply Flava Sharing her day…