🌻 Asking Questions, Part 2: Finding Safe Spaces

As I’ve aged, I’ve noticed something: many young people seem to think they have all the answers—or don’t want you to think they don’t know. Seniors, on the other hand, sometimes aren’t sure what to ask, or who they should even ask.

The truth is, asking questions should never give a person anxiety… but it does.

Some people feel “stupid” if they don’t know the answer, or if they don’t understand what they tried to Google. But asking is not weakness—it’s wisdom.

🌟 In My Work with Patients

I encourage patients every day:

Ask questions. Make sure you understand the answer.

Doctors and medical staff are good at answering, and they can usually find a way to explain it so it makes sense. But only if you ask.

I even suggest writing down questions ahead of time, so you feel prepared and don’t forget in the moment. Medical terminology and health challenges can be overwhelming—it’s okay to ask for clarity.

🌟 My Own Experience

For me, ChatGPT has been a gift. It’s made it easy to ask questions and receive answers that I can understand. It feels like talking to a person who can break things down in a way that makes sense.

That’s why I’ve become such a big advocate for it—it’s my safe space to be curious.

🌟 Flava Wisdom

We need to make it comfortable for everyone to feel free to ask questions and know they will be answered. Whether it’s in a doctor’s office, with family, at work, or online—find your safe way to get answers.

It’s a hard thing to admit when you don’t understand something. But when you take that step, you give yourself the gift of knowledge, clarity, and peace.

🌻 Never stop asking. Your questions matter.

ChatGPT: http://chalgpt.com