☕ Coffee with Lady Flava

You Don’t Always Need Closure

There was a time in my life when I believed every situation needed closure.

A conversation.

An apology.

An explanation that wrapped things up neatly so I could move forward.

That belief kept me waiting far longer than I should have.

As I’ve aged, I’ve learned something freeing —closure doesn’t have to come from the other person.

Deep down, I already know what happened.

I know what I gave.

I know what was missing.

I know what crossed the line.

And sometimes, that’s enough.

I don’t need one more conversation to confirm what my spirit already understands.

All I need is to name it — and let it go.

The real lesson came when I realized this:

The power was never in someone else’s hands.

It’s always been mine.

I get to decide what I carry.

I get to decide what I release.

And I get to move forward without waiting for permission, validation, or an apology that may never come.

That kind of closure?

It’s quiet.

It’s personal.

And it’s powerful.

Sip your coffee slow today.

Not everything needs to be revisited to be resolved.

— Lady Flava ☕🌻