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H&W|6+|The Power of Rest, Hydration & Movement as We Age
By Lady Flava The Power of Rest, Hydration & Movement as We Age As someone who recently turned the magic number—65—I find myself reflecting on aging not just from a personal lens, but also through the eyes of a professional who has worked in the medical industry for the past eight years. Whether as a…
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✨ H&W||65+|What I’ve Learned About Aging: A Reflection at 65
✨ What I’ve Learned About Aging: A Reflection at 65 By Lady Flava There are so many factors we should pay attention to as we age. Sometimes, I wish I had those deep, honest conversations with my elders—about what to expect, how it feels, what remedies worked for them. But the truth is, I wasn’t…
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Blog Challenge|Description of Lady Flava
How would you describe yourself to someone? 🌿 How Would I Describe Myself? My father was a first-generation Japanese American, born in the United States. My mother was the only child of a German immigrant—first and only generation, born here as well. I was raised in the Black community of Seattle, Washington, attending predominately Black…
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Thinking Out Loud|No One Is Normal
💭 No One Is Normal A Truth That Sets Us Free We grow up chasing something called “normal.” Act normal. Look normal. React normally. Learn the way everyone else does. Don’t stand out too much—but don’t fall behind either. What no one tells you is… No one is actually normal. We’re all just performing. Some…
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✨ Labels We Whisper, Truths We Carry
✨ Labels We Whisper, Truths We Carry Part 2 of “Labels That Harm vs. Labels That Heal” There’s a difference between a label and a truth. Labels are often assigned to us— Truth is what we reclaim for ourselves. In my last post, I explored how some labels hurt, and others help. But since then,…
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60+|Bridge Builder or Attention Seeker
✨ Punished for My Peace: What They Didn’t Understand About My Intentions For as long as I can remember, I’ve been someone who bridges gaps. Between patients and providers. Between coworkers who don’t know how to communicate. Between artists and the audiences who never quite saw their full worth. Between emotion and understanding. My gift…
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💻 From Poopsie to SereniKey: My Journey, My Tools, My Truth
💻 From Poopsie to SereniKey: My Journey, My Tools, My Truth For over two decades, Poopsie has been by my side. She was named by My Peace—the morning I packed up my life and pulled away from his home, heading toward the unknown that waited for me in Las Vegas. From that moment on, she…
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Flava Wellness Check-In: Let’s Talk About Eye Health
As I journey through my 60s, I’ve grown more in tune with my body—and lately, I’ve been reflecting on my eyes. Some days I notice floaters drifting across my vision. On others, I struggle with glare and clarity when driving at night. I recently learned I have a slight cataract in my left eye, and…
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60+|Seasons of Us: A Story of Real Love
Seasons of Us: A Story of Real Love Some love stories don’t follow a straight line. Ours is one that has traveled across decades, through changes and chances, heartache and healing… yet always found its way back to center. To us. We met as teenagers, with stars in our eyes and the whole world ahead…


