Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to.

Embracing Change: Walking Away from Lady Flava

Shortly after returning home to Seattle, I knew deep down that I would be walking away from my life as Lady Flava, “The Artist Cheerleader.” The passion that once fueled me had faded in Las Vegas. The industry had changed in ways I could no longer connect with, and I found myself struggling to hold on to something that no longer felt like home.

Walking away wasn’t easy, but it was necessary. I truly felt like I was losing myself, trying to navigate an industry that no longer aligned with my values or vision.

From 2003, when I built Flava Coffee House, to 2023, my life revolved around supporting creatives. Those years were filled with excitement, challenges, and a deep sense of fulfillment. I served a purpose. I dedicated myself to creative soulz with passion and commitment.

Did I ever think I would walk away? Never. I believed I would always be involved with the arts in some form. But life has a way of shifting us in unexpected directions.

A New Chapter: Embracing Susan

Today, I am still known as Lady Flava, but no longer in the arts and entertainment space. Instead, I choose to use my name and brand to share my voice in a different way—one that reflects my reality as I age and evolve.

My life is changing. I feel it in my body, my mind, and my spirit. I have health concerns that slow me down. I get tired more easily. I no longer enjoy being in large crowds, and I rarely talk on the phone. These days, my driving is mostly limited to work, and I avoid going out at night or in the rain.

With these changes, I’ve become more aware of what truly matters to me. My interests, my energy, and my creative focus are shifting. And that’s okay.

Living for Myself—Without Apologies

In 2025, I go by Susan. It feels liberating to just be myself, without the weight of expectations or obligations. For the first time in a long time, my focus is on me.

The decision to step away from the life of Lady Flava wasn’t sudden—it was a process. And while I won’t say I’ll never support creatives again, I know it will never consume my life the way it once did.

Today, I embrace a new sense of empowerment. I am doing me—with no apologies.

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