Category: Flava’s thoughts…
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60+|My Birthday Eve Refection
🖤 When One Moment Feels Bigger Than Me By Lady Flava | Birthday Eve Reflection As I stand on the edge of turning 65, I find myself reflecting — not just on the years behind me, but on the moments that have shaped who I am today. I’ve been told I’m kind. That I bring peace…
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Blog Challenge|60+|Leader vs Follower
Are you a leader or a follower? Are You a Leader or a Follower? When I saw this question, I paused. Because truthfully… I’m both. And I’m okay with that. “Leading in My Own Way: A Reflection on Strength, Season, and Self” Born to Lead, Willing to Follow From an early age, I found myself…
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Blog Challenge|60+|What Am I An Authority On
On what subject(s) are you an authority? “The Subjects I Know by Heart: A Life Lived in Service, Survival & Soul” As I step into my 65th year, I find myself reflecting on the question: What am I an authority on? Truth is, I’ve never chased titles. I’ve lived a life rooted in service, healing,…
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60+|Getting My Groove Back (no, not like Stella)
Getting My Groove Back: Coffee, Cats & Plotting My Next Chapter This morning, Ghini (short for Lamborghini) and I are posted up by the front window. He’s lounging high on her perch like the pretty boy he is, while I sip on coffee that’s still too hot to drink. The air is crisp, the birds…
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Blog Challenge|60+|The Power of Unplugging
How do you know when it’s time to unplug? What do you do to make it happen? Blog Challenge Response: The Power of Unplugging I’ll be turning 65 in a few days, and I’d like to think that by now, I’ve developed a solid sense of self-awareness. Unplugging isn’t just something I should do — it’s something…
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60+|Reflection|Honoring Myself
A Conversation That Needed to Happen Today, I had a conversation that I didn’t know how much I needed. It wasn’t easy. My heart was heavy, and the words came from a place of both sadness and longing — for clarity, for peace, for something to feel familiar again. Over time, things have shifted in…

