Category: Flava’s thoughts…
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60+ | Lessons
Own your decisions and understand the outcomes. Things will not change until we decide to do things differently. Learn the lesson and stop letting the cycle repeat itself. We set the tone on how people treat us. Years ago my god-sister told me when dealing with a bad marriage, she said “when you’re tired of…
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60+ |Black Eyed Peas on New Year’s Day #repost
Why do Southerners eat Black Eyed Peas on New Year’s Day? The story of the Southern tradition of eating black-eyed peas as the first meal on New Year’s Day is generally believed to date back to the winter of 1864 – 1865. When Union General William T. Sherman led his invading troops on their destructive…
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I Died In Vegas #ladyflava (defining my rebirth)
I really love this post that I created when I first came up with the concept of this post. Yes, I went to Vegas with passion and purpose with a plan and a goal. I thought that it would become a reality but a year in or less, I realized that I was on my…
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60+ | Declutter Your Life For The New Year
What are the 7 steps to declutter your life? https://heartscontentfarmhouse.com/decluttering-simple-living/ 2022-2023 I have been exploring more and more how I identify what decluttering looks like for my life. -I see getting rid of things I clearly do not use -Eliminate things that do not make me happy-people-places and again things -Discontinue engaging relationships that bring…
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A&E | What Happened Creatively In 1960
Share what you know about the year you were born. This was interesting to to research what took place in the creative arena during the year I was born. MUSIC The Beatles This rock band formed in Liverpool back in 1960 with members John Lennon, Paul McCartney, George Harrison, and Ringo Starr. They started out…
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60+ | Rotten Fruit
#Repost First Posted by Teri Tobin 2019..#realtalk Such wise words not to be taken lightly…. 👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽(and especially for those that wish to spread negative over this way…🚫) If you take a piece of rotten fruit and place it beside perfectly good fruit…what happens? The mold from the rotten fruit spreads over to the good fruit…
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60+ | Communication Is Key 🔑
Good communication is KEY in all kinds of relationships. No response is apart of communication! #somethingtothinkabout ~Lady Flava~ (first post 2017) com·mu·ni·ca·tion /kəˌmyo͞onəˈkāSH(ə)n/ noun The older I get; I have reflected on challenging relationships and communication wither it be personal or professional. I will maintain when I encountered a person who is undiagnosed on the…
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60+ | Happy Holidays
When I think about the holidays, especially Christmas, Kwanzaa, and New Years…I love the family experience behind these holidays. With the commercialism about the holidays and turning them into money spending pressures, I maintain that the holidays is not about gift giving and fancy clothes but time for family and friends…sharing time, space, and yummy…
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A&E | Know The Words By Heart
You may not appreciate me writing this, but this is my truth. I strongly believe as a professional entertainer, you should never perform something if you do not know the words or are not prepared. Stick to what you know and what your vibe will bring a real great experience to your audience. I have…
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60+ | I Worry, When I Have Faith
I have been thinking about myself and my why. Why I I react the way I do, with worrying about things, even though I trust it will all work out. I guess I just get anxious through the process, until I am at the point of knowing. I was so anxious about what the process…

