What are you most proud of in your life?

What I Am Most Proud Of in My Life

God blessed me with the ability to care for others. I witnessed this gift in action through my parents, my godmother, and the elders who helped shape me. They were living examples of love, kindness, and selfless service—and I took that in deeply.

From a young age, I knew I wanted to be someone who helped others—whether it was through a listening ear, a helping hand, words of encouragement, or simply showing up for someone in their time of need. I recognized early on how important it is to be kind, considerate, and especially to support those who don’t have the resources or people to lean on.

As I’ve grown older, I still feel that calling strongly. But I’ve also learned to set boundaries. I’m more thoughtful now about who and when I expose myself to situations that would draw on that giving part of me. It’s not about closing off—it’s about preserving my energy and being intentional.

Today, I pour my care into my job. I’ve become something like a “grandma” to my younger co-workers, and a gentle, sympathetic presence to the patients who walk through our doors each day. Often, I share my own journey—living with pain for over a year, and how Dr. David’s care has changed my life. When I sense a patient might be open, I also offer other steps that have helped me in my healing.

What I know for sure is that I am a good listener and a thoughtful responder. As an empath, I don’t just hear words—I feel energy, I read the room, and I pay attention to what’s said and what isn’t. When you listen deeply, watch gently, and feel someone’s story, you learn how to respond in a way that resonates.

I care. Genuinely. And I believe people can feel that when I speak with them.

I’m not saying this to pat myself on the back—but I do know that caring is one of my greatest strengths. It is my superpower. It’s been present in every season of my life, in all kinds of jobs and roles. I’ve been blessed to be a blessing.

And I must also say this: I’ve received so many blessings in return. So many people along my own journey have lifted me up, shown me grace, and cared for me just when I needed it most.

In the end, one of the greatest gifts you can give another person is this:
To look them in the eye…
Be fully present…
And let them know, “In this moment, I am with you—and you matter.”

That is what I am most proud of in my life.

LadyFlava of LadyFlavaNews

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