Tag: Thinking Outloud
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RealTalk|Emotional Intelligence
You can tell a lot about a person… not when things are calm— but when they’re triggered. Do they pause… or react? Do they listen… or talk over you? Do they bring peace… or chaos? Emotional intelligence isn’t about being perfect. It’s about how you show up when it matters most.
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A Taste of Flava|Some days… you just have to go with the flow.
Some days come with everything at once—responsibilities, emotions, unexpected moments… and still, there’s something good sitting right in the middle of it all if you choose to see
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RealTalk|What Is Fair to Expect… If Someone Was Never Shown?
Is it fair to expect someone to show up a certain way… if they were never shown how? This one hit me deep. Because I realized… a lot of what I expect from people isn’t just about behavior— it’s about what I was taught, what I witnessed, and what I lived growing up. Not everyone…
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☕️ Coffee with Lady Flava|The Birds Outside My Tower
I used to hear birds as background noise… Now I hear them differently. Somewhere between the stress, the stillness, and slowing down… they became something more. Not loud. Not dramatic. Just a quiet reminder that I’m okay.
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A Taste of Flava ☕🌻|Saturday Morning
Woke up at 5am… closed the window, turned off the light I forgot about… and saw a surprise from Yelp that made me smile 😊 Got 4 more hours of sleep, woke up to a cool quiet room, and made myself a simple breakfast that my belly loved. Plans changed… body said slow down… so…

