Category: perspective

• 65|“Decluttering Your Life: A 2025 Journey to Wholeness”

   “Decluttering Your Life: A 2025 Journey to Wholeness” Letting Go to Make Room for What Matters Most Opening Reflection: As we journey into 2025, I find myself continuing to ask the deeper questions: What do I need? What brings me peace? And most importantly—what no longer serves me? Decluttering is no longer just about getting…

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  July 30, 2025

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• 65|I Didn’t Need to Understand Everything — To Know That It Mattered

  I Didn’t Need to Understand Everything — To Know That It Mattered By Lady Flava There are moments when words aren’t the most important part of a conversation. I recently watched two individuals share a connection that was deeply personal, filled with joy, affirmation, and identity. They both openly identified as Queer and, upon discovering…

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  July 28, 2025

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• 60+|🌞 Attitude Is Everything

  🌞 Attitude Is Everything: What This Week Taught Me About Choosing Joy by Susan Koshi | Lady Flava Wellness This week reminded me of something I’ve always known—but hadn’t always practiced: Attitude is everything. It’s easy to say. Harder to live. But when I chose to walk into each day with a positive attitude—something shifted. I…

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  July 24, 2025

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• A Journey Through Ikigai and Wabi Sabi

  🌿 Finding My Way Back to Me: A Journey Through Ikigai and Wabi Sabi By Susan “Lady Flava” Koshi There are times when I wish I had an elder still with me—someone to sit beside, sip tea with, and ask deep questions about life, purpose, and beauty. I imagine them telling stories with soft hands and wise…

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  July 20, 2025

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• “Kindness Isn’t Weakness, But You Played It Wrong”

  🖤 When Kindness Is Met With Strategy “You don’t get to destroy someone’s spirit and then get uncomfortable when they survive it.” Lately, I’ve been moving through a quiet storm — one that doesn’t show on the outside, but it’s shifted everything underneath. People I once trusted changed. Conversations slowed when I entered the room.…

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  July 16, 2025

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• 60+|H&W|Returning to Calm: Finding Peace in Familiar Spaces

  Today was a good day. I found myself back in the Cerebrovascular (CV) clinic—a space I hadn’t worked in regularly for over a year. I used to love being here. Back then, it felt like my home base: steady, calm, and familiar. Over time, I shifted into the bustling world of Neurosurgery Complex Spine. The…

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  July 8, 2025

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• 60+|Reflection|Honoring Myself

  A Conversation That Needed to Happen Today, I had a conversation that I didn’t know how much I needed. It wasn’t easy. My heart was heavy, and the words came from a place of both sadness and longing — for clarity, for peace, for something to feel familiar again. Over time, things have shifted in…

  Lady Flava News

  July 3, 2025

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• 60+|Short Term Memory Loss

  Title: “When the Mind Forgets: Living with Short-Term Memory Loss” I’ve been noticing more and more how my memory doesn’t always work the way it used to. Not in every area—but in strange, frustrating ways. I forget who sings some of my favorite songs. I struggle to recall actors or even answers to work quizzes…

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  June 30, 2025

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• 60+|I’m Not Perfect but I Care

  “I’m Not Perfect, But I Care—Deeply” I’ve never claimed to be perfect.I don’t always say the right thing.I might get overwhelmed.I might even shut down or pull away.But one thing remains true: I care. I care about people.I care about doing what’s right.I care about the energy I bring into a space.I care when someone is…

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  June 28, 2025

  60+, Aging, Bad Attitude, Be Sincere, Blessings, Boundaries, Feeling Safe, Feeling Violated, Feeling Vulnerable, Flava’s thoughts…, Forgive, Forgiveness is Important, Get Through It, Healing Journey, I Care, I’m Not Perfect, Kindness, Lady Flava, Let Go, Life, Mindfulness, Mindset, My Life, Own Your Feelings, Own Your Reaction, Patience, Peace of Mind, perspective, Self Care, Sharing My Thoughts, Susan K aka Lady Flava

• 60+|Gossip or Growth

  The Line Between Gossip or Growth Today, I’ve been reflecting deeply on the delicate line between gossip and sharing information with the intent to understand and support others. A recent experience at work sparked this reflection, and I now feel ready to share it. I’ve always approached my work with heart. As someone who has…

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  June 28, 2025

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