Category: Lady Flava Real Talk
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RealTalk|Listen With Your Ears—Not Your Triggers
Sometimes we are not reacting to what was actually said—we are reacting to an old wound that the words touched. Before you defend, argue, or shut down, pause and ask yourself: Am I listening with my ears—or with my triggers? Today’s Sunday Real Talk is something I needed to hear for myself. 🌻
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RealTalk|Are We Speaking The Same Language
Have you ever taken the time to explain something clearly, asked a specific question—and received an answer to everything except what you actually asked? At some point, you have to wonder: Did they misunderstand you, choose the easiest part to answer, or simply stop listening halfway through? 🤣 Friday’s Real Talk is about selective listening—and…
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RealTalk|Workplace Culture Change
Have you ever looked around your workplace and realized it is no longer the same culture you were originally hired into? The company may have the same name and the work may still need to be done—but expectations, communication, accountability, and teamwork can change over time. In Wednesday’s Real Talk, I’m sharing an honest reflection…
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RealTalk| Culture
Culture is more than race, nationality, or a box we check on a form. It is heritage, history, community, family traditions, and the lived experiences that shape how we see the world. My culture has layers—and yours probably does too. Today’s Monday Real Talk asks one powerful question: What Does Culture Mean to You?
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RealTalk|Our Five Sense
Since working from home in the Tower, I have experienced my neighborhood differently. I recognize Poe from two blocks away, know the sounds of the birds, squirrels, Yapper, and delivery trucks, smell the nearby bakery and neighbors’ barbecues, enjoy every delicious DoorDash discovery, and appreciate the comfort of touching soft blankets—and softer grandcats. 🤣 We…
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RealTalk|Where’s My Seasoned Soulz
More and more, I realize that I truly enjoy my own company. I still love and care about my people, but after spending eight hours a day communicating with others, I do not always want to talk. Sometimes, I simply want to sit peacefully in my Tower, write, learn, work on my body, and enjoy…
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RealTalk|Identity
A Navy seaman called me “ma’am” during a telephone conversation, and I received it exactly as he intended it—with respect. That simple moment made me think about identity, intention, and the grace we offer one another. Be who you are. Allow other people to be who they are. Not every mistake is an attack, and…
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RealTalk|Today’s vs. Yesterday’s Outfit Sex Appeal
There was a time when sex appeal included mystery, elegance, posture, and knowing how to gracefully walk in your shoes. Today, it sometimes seems that the less fabric involved, the more something is called fashion. But revealing and stylish are not automatically the same thing. For Wednesday Real Talk, I’m sharing my old-school opinion on…
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RealTalk|What Does It Mean To Trust Someone?
Teaser The older I get, the more selective I become about who I trust. Trust is not just about whether someone is nice to me. It is about consistency, honesty, boundaries, accountability, and whether their actions match their words over time. I can be open and still be selective. I can care about people and…
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RealTalk|Your Choices May Block Opportunities
Your choices are yours. Your appearance is yours. Your life is yours. But part of becoming an adult is understanding that some choices may open doors… and some may close them. Monday’s Real Talk is about personal expression, work expectations, accountability, and thinking beyond the moment before making choices that could affect future opportunities. Do…
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