Tag: Life
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Life|65|Just Being
The Beauty of Just Being This morning, I woke up without an alarm and without an agenda. I poured my coffee, sat for a moment, and realized—I don’t have to plan this day. I don’t want to plan this day. So much of life is tied to structure. Our jobs, our schedules, our families, our…
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Life|65|Common Sense
When Do People Gain Common Sense? It’s a question I find myself asking often: When do people gain common sense? The truth is, there isn’t a magic age when it suddenly appears. Some people develop it young—maybe life required them to pay attention, adapt quickly, and learn from experience. Others can go decades without sharpening…
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Life|Being Known
Being Known There is something sacred about being known. Not for the mask you wear, not for the role you play—but for the heart of who you are. When someone reflects your truths back to you—your love for nature, your empath spirit, your stories, your struggles, your growth—it feels like a mirror held up gently.…
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60+|🖊️ Changing the Narrative
There comes a moment when you get tired of the same old story. The one where you’re the misunderstood one. The one where you’re constantly defending your intentions. The one where your peace is held hostage by someone else’s drama. And then something shifts. You realize… you have the power to change the narrative. Maybe…
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60+|🌞 Attitude Is Everything
🌞 Attitude Is Everything: What This Week Taught Me About Choosing Joy by Susan Koshi | Lady Flava Wellness This week reminded me of something I’ve always known—but hadn’t always practiced: Attitude is everything. It’s easy to say. Harder to live. But when I chose to walk into each day with a positive attitude—something shifted. I…
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🔑 Communication Is Still the Key (2025)
🔑 Communication Is Still the Key Then & Now Reflections from Lady Flava In 2017, I wrote a short blog post that said: “Good communication is KEY in all kinds of relationships. No response is a part of communication!” — Lady Flava That message still holds true. And today, in 2025, I find myself revisiting…
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60+|🌿 What Does an Elder Advocate Do?
🌿 What Does an Elder Advocate Do? By Susan “Lady Flava” Koshi As our loved ones age, the systems around them become harder to navigate—from healthcare to housing to basic daily needs. That’s where elder advocates step in. But what do we actually do? An elder advocate is more than a helper. We are protectors,…
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60+|You’re Doing Better Than You Think
🌤 A Soft Reminder: You’re Doing Better Than You Think To whoever needs this today… You don’t have to have it all figured out to be doing something beautiful with your life. Sometimes, just getting up, breathing through the pain, and choosing kindness when it’s easier to shut down—is everything. If no one’s told you lately:…

