Category: Flava Blogs
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65|đť Weekend Vibes
đť Weekend Vibes âSincerely, Jessica⌠the weekends are my time.â I donât do much, and thatâs exactly how I like it. Thereâs nothing fancy about it, but itâs sacred. Itâs me in my towerâwrapped in quiet, wrapped in peace. No matter the weather, I love looking out my window with a warm cup of coffee in…
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65|âWhen Forgiveness Has a Whyâand When It Doesnâtâ
âWhen Forgiveness Has a Whyâand When It Doesnâtâ By Lady Flava Forgiveness is such a complicated part of life. Some people say we have to forgive to heal. Others say forgiveness is for us, not for them. And Iâve learned⌠sometimes, both can be trueâand sometimes, itâs not that simple. I remember when I finally…
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Beanism Vol.5|Pizza, Peace & People-Watching
Beanism Vol.5: Pizza, Peace & People-Watching đž Wisdom from the Tower Todayâs Lesson: Even the humans need treats. So there I was⌠Sitting in the tower, quietly observing as Lady Flava came home smelling like⌠cheese . đđź Apparently, someone thought feeding the clinic team would fix all the glitches in the system. Spoiler: It…
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65|65 and Counting⌠and Restless
65 and Counting⌠and Restless It felt like a long day at work. Yes, I was bored. Now Iâm home, and somehow time feels like itâs dragging in slow motion. Maybe the Universe is whispering: âShave your legs.â âTake those dinner dishes downstairs.â âThereâs an itch you canât quite scratchâgo figure it out.â I could…
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65| âNot Forever, Just For Nowâ
âNot Forever, Just For Nowâ Protecting My Peace Without Closing the Door There are moments in life when we must choose space over confrontation, stillness over chaos, and self-preservation over explanation. This isnât about holding a grudge. Itâs about holding my groundâquietly, calmly, and with grace. Recently, I was faced with a dynamic that shifted…
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Vol.4 of Beanism|âPut Your Sunflower Blinders On & Carry Onâ
đť Lady Flavaâs Official Tower Orders â Issued by Bean, Ruler of All That Matters đť âPut Your Sunflower Blinders On & Carry Onâ This week, we are not: Chasing drama. Explaining ourselves to chaos. Giving tail flicks to unworthy distractions. We ARE: Blooming in peace. Radiating style with sunflower blinders firmly in place. Sitting…
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Blog Challenge|Description of Lady Flava
How would you describe yourself to someone? đż How Would I Describe Myself? My father was a first-generation Japanese American, born in the United States. My mother was the only child of a German immigrantâfirst and only generation, born here as well. I was raised in the Black community of Seattle, Washington, attending predominately Black…

