Category: Lady Flava’s Day
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ASipOfFlava|The Week Ended Perfectly
This week stretched me… but it also blessed me. A good review. A strong staff meeting. An unforgettable 18th birthday celebration. This morning I’m in my tower with cowboy coffee, choosing gratitude over noise. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is pause and recognize what went right. ☕🌻
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ASipOfFlava|Eighteen
They turned 18 today. I left when she was 9 — still my Nanny’s girl — and came home to a brilliant, layered, independent young woman building worlds through writing and rebuilding engines with her hands. I missed some chapters… but I’m grateful for the pages we’re writing now. Happy Birthday, Eddison. I see you.…
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ASipOfFlava|Three Crows and a Windy Thursday
Three crows outside my tower window reminded me of something this windy Thursday morning… You don’t have to fly away every time life gusts. Sometimes you just lean, grip, and stay.
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ASipOf Flava|What Does Anger Look Like
Not everyone needs to raise their voice to make a point. Some of us would rather sip our Cowboy coffee, speak clearly, and let the silence do the rest. Anger might feel powerful in the moment… but calm? Calm is controlled. Calm is intentional. Calm is grown. Pull up a chair. There’s a leopard print…
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RealTalk| Pets… Do Share Life with A Pet?
Do you have a pet companion? Someone who guards the window like security, nudges your legs when they need love, and settles beside you when the day is done? In this house, it’s Musty and Ghini. They don’t care about workplace shifts. They don’t care about deadlines. They don’t care if all four blogs got…
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Daily Intention|Monday
Today, I move with intention, listen to my body, and trust my inner knowing. I run my own race — steady, grounded, and without comparison.
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Blog Challenge|When Am I Most Happy?
Happiness doesn’t look like fireworks anymore. It looks like warmth, peace, good coffee, love that’s stood the test of time, and moments that quietly settle into the heart. This is what joy looks like for me now—simple, honest, and deeply felt.
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H&W|Listen To Your Body
Listening to my body during a storm reminded me how powerful awareness, support, and speaking up at the right time can be — especially when weather, pain, and timing collide.
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Life|✨ I Stereotyped All Asians Bow ✨
Ever catch yourself making a cultural assumption without even realizing it? I did today — and it made me laugh, cringe, and reflect all at the same time. A simple moment turned into a reminder that even when something feels familiar, it doesn’t belong to everyone. Here’s how I caught myself… and corrected myself with…
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Life|🌻 The Shoehorn Story
A simple tool from my Daddy’s generation became a lifeline in mine. Before you wrestle with another shoe, let me tell you why a shoehorn might just change your whole daily routine.

