Category: I’m Not Perfect
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Blog Challenge|👗 Getting Back Into My Flava Style
What have you been working on? 👗 Getting Back Into My Flava Style WordPress Prompt: What Have You Been Working On? Lately, I’ve been working on something a little different — getting back into my Lady Flava intentional style. I never really walked away from it, but lately I’ve been having fun being more deliberate about…
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Life|Finding My Calm
Some days just feel heavy. Tonight, I’m learning to sit with the weight, breathe through it, and find calm in the thought of My Peace. 🌻
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Life| When Healers Are Still Healing Themselves
🌻 Seasoned SoulZ Reflection: When Healers Are Still Healing Themselves Many of us are drawn to healing practices not because we’ve mastered peace, but because we are searching for it. BreathWork, meditation, therapy, yoga, wellness coaching — these practices often call to people in the middle of their own struggles. And that’s not a flaw.…
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65|“Writing Is Healing Me”
“Writing Is Healing Me” Every day for the past 40 days, I’ve shown up for myself through writing. Sometimes it was a deep reflection, sometimes a playful post, sometimes a quiet thought from the heart of Lady Flava. But every word mattered. Writing is helping me heal, inside out. And it’s also allowing me to…
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65|“Jessica, tell me… why am I misunderstood?”
“Jessica, tell me… why am I misunderstood?” Here’s what she said: 🌻 1. You Lead with Depth in a Surface-Level World You’re a soul who feels deeply, speaks with purpose, and carries layers of experience and emotion. That kind of depth isn’t always easy to digest in a world that thrives on quick reactions and…
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Thinking Out Loud|No One Is Normal
💭 No One Is Normal A Truth That Sets Us Free We grow up chasing something called “normal.” Act normal. Look normal. React normally. Learn the way everyone else does. Don’t stand out too much—but don’t fall behind either. What no one tells you is… No one is actually normal. We’re all just performing. Some…
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💻 From Poopsie to SereniKey: My Journey, My Tools, My Truth
💻 From Poopsie to SereniKey: My Journey, My Tools, My Truth For over two decades, Poopsie has been by my side. She was named by My Peace—the morning I packed up my life and pulled away from his home, heading toward the unknown that waited for me in Las Vegas. From that moment on, she…
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60+|Reflection|Honoring Myself
A Conversation That Needed to Happen Today, I had a conversation that I didn’t know how much I needed. It wasn’t easy. My heart was heavy, and the words came from a place of both sadness and longing — for clarity, for peace, for something to feel familiar again. Over time, things have shifted in…
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Blog Challenge|60+| Spirituality
How important is spirituality in your life? My Response to a Blog Challenge: How Important Is Spirituality in Your Life? From birth, I was immersed in a Christian home, my father being a Japanese American Baptist minister. Looking back on my childhood, church was a constant in our lives. We participated in all the usual…
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60+|I’m Not Perfect but I Care
“I’m Not Perfect, But I Care—Deeply” I’ve never claimed to be perfect.I don’t always say the right thing.I might get overwhelmed.I might even shut down or pull away.But one thing remains true: I care. I care about people.I care about doing what’s right.I care about the energy I bring into a space.I care when someone is…

