Category: Don’t Take It Personal
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ASipOfFlava|Trust
Trust is a beautiful thing when it’s honored—and a heavy thing when it’s broken. In a world where trust feels fragile, this sip is a gentle reminder to pause, reflect, and start by trusting yourself.
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Life| When Healers Are Still Healing Themselves
🌻 Seasoned SoulZ Reflection: When Healers Are Still Healing Themselves Many of us are drawn to healing practices not because we’ve mastered peace, but because we are searching for it. BreathWork, meditation, therapy, yoga, wellness coaching — these practices often call to people in the middle of their own struggles. And that’s not a flaw.…
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The Book of Bean #2 😻
“You Thought You Could Tarnish Me in My Tower… With Your Audience of 3?” Darling, let me set the record straight from the comfort of my plush perch by the window… You thought whispering shadows could dim my shine? You gathered your little circle of three, fluffed your feathers, and flung words like pebbles hoping…
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Blog Challenge|🌻 Labels That Harm vs. Labels That Heal
What would you change about modern society? 🌻 Labels That Harm vs. Labels That Heal A Response to “What Would You Change About Modern Society?” In today’s world, we talk a lot about inclusion, identity, and personal truth. We wear badges of who we are with pride—whether that’s sharing our pronouns, embracing our heritage, or owning…
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Busy or Distracted? A Real Talk Reflection
Lately, I’ve been sitting with the difference between being busy and being emotionally unavailable — and what that looks like in today’s world. This reflection isn’t about blaming anyone, but more about giving grace to ourselves and others as we navigate life’s noise, expectations, and personal seasons of healing. Busy or Distracted? A Real Talk…
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60+| When Communication Doesn’t Connect. Love On The Spectrum
✨ When Communication Doesn’t Connect: What Loving Someone on the Spectrum Taught Me About Understanding and Letting Go There was a time in my life when I found myself in a relationship that, from the outside, made sense — we had shared interests, mutual respect, and worked together creatively. But behind the scenes, something always felt…
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60+|My Peace ☮️
🌿 My Peace | My Friend | My Love 🌿 After a week that tested my patience and strength at work, I found myself holding on to frustration and fatigue. Health-wise, I don’t get out much beyond my job. The weight of it all felt heavy — until My Peace called. Last Friday night, the phone rang. It was…
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60+| Autism vs ADHD (I Need Help)
“Learning to Lead with Compassion: Navigating Life’s Challenges with Neurodivergence” There are moments in life where I find myself feeling stuck—unsure if I’m being too soft, too direct, too patient, or not enough of any of it. I work with, worked for as Lady Flava, dated a man and experience in my own family persons…
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60+|Masking in Life
Masking: The What, the Why… and My Personal Journey While living in Las Vegas, I encountered someone who was on the Autism Spectrum. It turned into a hurtful and emotionally challenging experience—one that left me confused and searching for answers. There was an unusual disconnect between us, one unlike anything I had experienced before. That…
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