Category: Flava is A Taste, A Style, A Feeling…What’s Your Flava
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RealTalk|Dating in 2025… Lord, Help Us All
Dating in 2025 is not for the faint of heart. Between the apps, the trends, the emotional intelligence tests, and the “slow dating” movement… Lord, help us all. If you’ve ever wondered how people are managing this modern circus, let’s talk about it — with humor, honesty, and a whole lot of side-eye.
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H&W|Why Everyone Needs an Electric Blanket
Seattle winter hits different — cold, damp, and straight to the bones. One of the best wellness tools you can own is an electric blanket or shawl. It’s warmth, comfort, and pain relief all in one. Let’s talk about why staying warm isn’t just cozy… it’s essential for your health.
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ASipOfFlava|🌻 Be Kind. Stay Calm. Choose Peace.
Kindness isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s the quiet choice to stay calm, to respond gently, and to shift the entire energy of a moment. Today I’m reflecting on how choosing peace — even when I’m annoyed — can change everything.
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Blog Challenge|The Value of Self Control
What’s something you believe everyone should know. “What’s something you believe everyone should know?” I wish someone told me when I was younger that I had far more control over how my life played out than I ever realized. We give up so much of our power — especially to other people. We let their…
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RealTalk|🌻 The Recipe for “Normal” — According to a Seasoned Soul
Ever wonder what “normal” even means anymore? I broke it down Flava-style — as a recipe. Yes, a real recipe. With ingredients, instructions, and a whole lot of seasoned truth. Come see what your version of normal might look like.
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H&W|“Masking: When Playing a Role Turns Into Silent Trauma”
We’ve all learned how to “act right” in certain rooms… But masking? Masking is something deeper — something heavier. It’s the quiet trauma people carry behind the most normal days. And the world has no idea what it would look like if we all stopped hiding.
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RealTalk|“The Gray Era: When Right and Wrong Became ‘Interpretations’”
We grew up in a world with clear rights and wrongs… Now we’re living in a gray era where everything is open to interpretation. Values feel flexible, boundaries shift, and truth depends on who’s speaking. This isn’t about going backward — it’s about asking what we might be losing in all this gray.
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H&W|“It’s Harder to Be Healthy — Toxic Is the Easy Way.”
Some truths don’t whisper… they hit you in the middle of an ordinary workday. A simple question, an honest answer — and suddenly you’re staring straight at the difference between surviving and growing. Because choosing health isn’t easy… but it is necessary.
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Life|✨ I Stereotyped All Asians Bow ✨
Ever catch yourself making a cultural assumption without even realizing it? I did today — and it made me laugh, cringe, and reflect all at the same time. A simple moment turned into a reminder that even when something feels familiar, it doesn’t belong to everyone. Here’s how I caught myself… and corrected myself with…

