Category: Flava Speaks Her Truth
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Sunday Conversation with Jessica|My Mind and Writing Style
Have you ever noticed that a simple conversation can take you on an unexpected journey? This week, Jessica and I started talking about laundry, birds, writing, Carl Jung, and how my mind seems to jump from one topic to another. What we discovered was something I had never really considered before. Maybe my mind isn’t…
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H&W|5-4-3-2-1 Technique
A few years ago, my therapist taught me a simple grounding exercise called the 5-4-3-2-1 Technique. I’ll be honest—I wasn’t sure something so simple could make a difference. But it does. When life feels overwhelming, stressful, frustrating, or you’re simply in a funky mood, this technique helps bring your attention back to the present moment.…
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H&W|Fasting
Fasting seems to be everywhere these days. Intermittent fasting. Water fasting. Spiritual fasting. Some people swear by it. Others avoid it completely. As someone who can go most of the day drinking water and not feel hungry until evening, I became curious. If eating less is supposed to be the answer, why isn’t it always…
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RealTalk|Know Your People
Not everyone who listens has wisdom to offer. Some people will help you grow. Some people will help you stay stuck. Before you pour out your frustrations, ask yourself: * Does this person have good judgment? * Do they keep confidence or spread stories? * Do they challenge me to do better or encourage me…
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ATasteOfFlava| I’m Tired and Need a Morning Nap
Ever wake up at 2:00 in the morning convinced something strange is happening outside your window? Last night I was awakened by music and voices so loud I thought people might be hanging out in my front patio. What followed was a full neighborhood investigation from my tower window, a decision about whether to call…
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RealTalk|Learn to Read Between the Words
Have you ever walked away from a conversation thinking: “That’s not what I meant.” Or maybe: “That’s not what I heard.” Communication is more than words. Sometimes people are speaking from the middle of the story, and understanding requires us to slow down, listen carefully, and look beyond the surface. This week’s Real Talk explores…

