Category: I Pay Attention
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RealTalk|Same Time, Different Worlds
We’re all living in the same moment — but not the same reality. Age, experience, and perspective shape how the world lands on us… and it shows up more than we realize.
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RealTalk|When Power Goes Unchecked|Trump
When power goes unchecked, it doesn’t just change policies — it changes how safe people feel in their own lives. This Monday Real Talk reflects on bullying, fear, and what happens when accountability disappears — and why refusing to normalize it still matters.
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SimplyFlava|Shedeur Sanders|I See Confidence, Not Cockiness
Confidence gets mislabeled when people don’t understand where it comes from. This isn’t about hype, stats, or noise — it’s about character, faith, discipline, and legacy. Sometimes you don’t defend what you see… you simply honor it. Simply Flava.
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RealTalk|When What You Bring Is No Longer Valued
Sometimes the hardest part of growth isn’t the work — it’s realizing that the space you’re in no longer values what you bring. This is my truth, spoken with clarity and self-respect.
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H&W|Incorporating Gua Sha Into My Evening Routine
🌻 Flava Wellness Series Incorporating Gua Sha Into My Evening Routine Evenings have become my time to slow down, breathe, and create rituals that care for both body and spirit. Lately, I’ve added something new to this nightly rhythm — Gua Sha. Gua Sha is an ancient Chinese healing practice that uses a smooth-edged tool,…
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Life|Kindness|When Kindness Meets Compatibility
When Kindness Meets Compatibility Lately, I’ve been reflecting on the stories I hear from younger people around me. Many of them are navigating relationships that feel both full of sweetness and yet layered with challenges. Sometimes there’s a partner who is considerate in small but meaningful ways — remembering to bring something thoughtful, offering a…
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Life|Kindness|Kindness Costs You Nothing
Kindness Costs You Nothing Kindness is free, yet its value is beyond measure. It doesn’t take much to smile, to reassure, to share a joke, or to offer comfort—but those small acts ripple in powerful ways. Today, I was reminded again and again that kindness is all around us, if we choose to notice it.…

