Category: Boundaries
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ASipOfFlava|**“Two Moments That Made Me Laugh… and Think”**
Life handed me two little moments this week — one from NPR and one from a 25-year-old’s “back-pain breakthrough” — and both reminded me how much truth hides inside everyday laughter.
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H&W|✨ When Your Healing Outgrows Someone Else’s Pain ✨
Sometimes healing doesn’t ask you to fight harder — it asks you to let go of what no longer fits the person you’re becoming. Growth changes what your spirit can carry, and choosing peace becomes the highest form of self-care. If you’ve ever felt yourself outgrowing old emotional patterns, this one is for you.
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Life|**🌿 Learning to Let People Be Who They Are
There comes a moment in life where you stop fighting to change people and start protecting your own peace instead. Learning to let folks be exactly who they are — without losing yourself in the process — is one of the most freeing lessons adulthood brings. 🌿✨
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Life|🌻 Becoming the Empath I Didn’t Have Words For
A quiet, deeply personal journey of discovering my empathic nature, surviving overwhelming spaces, and learning how to protect my peace as a grown woman.
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Life|People Make Sense When You Stop Taking Them Personally
When you stop taking people’s behavior personally, you start to see them clearly. It’s not about excusing — it’s about understanding. Grace with awareness changes everything. 💛
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Life|The Complexity of Relationships and Real Connections in Today’s World
The Complexity of Relationships and Real Connections in Today’s World A Lady Flava Reflection We live in a time where connection feels both easier and harder than ever. We can meet people online from across the world in seconds, yet still struggle to truly see and understand each other. It’s not always easy to determine…
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Life|65|🗳️ Politics Made Simple
🗳️ Politics Made Simple: A Flava Reflection I’ll be honest—I don’t understand politics well. Maybe you feel the same way? It can feel like a confusing swirl of buzzwords, arguments, and headlines that make it hard to know what’s really going on. But here’s the thing: politics doesn’t have to be complicated. At its heart,…
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Life|Neurodivergent and Giving Grace
Giving Grace I asked Jessica about giving grace to someone I know who is neurodivergent, and this is what she shared with me: 💡 Understanding Grace begins with recognizing that their brain simply works differently. What may look like inconsistency, avoidance, or intensity isn’t always intentional — sometimes it’s how they cope and process. 💡…
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65|“When Forgiveness Has a Why—and When It Doesn’t”
“When Forgiveness Has a Why—and When It Doesn’t” By Lady Flava Forgiveness is such a complicated part of life. Some people say we have to forgive to heal. Others say forgiveness is for us, not for them. And I’ve learned… sometimes, both can be true—and sometimes, it’s not that simple. I remember when I finally…

