Category: Advocate for Understanding
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RealTalk|What Is Fair to Expect… If Someone Was Never Shown?
Is it fair to expect someone to show up a certain way… if they were never shown how? This one hit me deep. Because I realized… a lot of what I expect from people isn’t just about behavior— it’s about what I was taught, what I witnessed, and what I lived growing up. Not everyone…
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RealTalk| New Words and Labels
Ever feel like talking these days comes with a rulebook nobody gave you? New words… new labels… new rules on when, where, and how to use them. At some point, it stops feeling like connection… and starts feeling like pressure. Sometimes it feels like all the noise is doing more dividing than uniting. Let’s talk…
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RealTalk|Fame & Fortune Means What?
Power looks good from the outside… but what happens behind the scenes? Not everyone who leads… deserves to. And not everything we admire… is real. Today, I’m talking about power, character, and why I’m no longer impressed by titles.
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RealTalk|Negative Talk
You ever catch yourself in your own thoughts and realize… you’ve been talking down to yourself all day? We don’t always notice it. But what we say—especially to ourselves—shapes everything. This Saturday Real Talk… we’re getting honest about negative talk, and why some of us get stuck in it without even realizing it. Because awareness?…
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A Taste of Flava 🌻|My Mood
I had a rough week… and I didn’t handle it as well as I normally would. And you know what? That’s real. Sometimes we can’t just “shift” on command. Sometimes we have to sit in it… rest… and let ourselves come back. This morning, it was the sound of birds for me. Simple. Peaceful. Enough.…
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RealTalk|When Doing Right Feels Wrong to Others
Ever find yourself doing the right thing… but it doesn’t feel that way to others? Sometimes it’s not about intention— it’s about timing, capacity, and what people are carrying.
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