Category: A Different Way of Thinking
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H&W|5-4-3-2-1 Technique
A few years ago, my therapist taught me a simple grounding exercise called the 5-4-3-2-1 Technique. I’ll be honest—I wasn’t sure something so simple could make a difference. But it does. When life feels overwhelming, stressful, frustrating, or you’re simply in a funky mood, this technique helps bring your attention back to the present moment.…
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RealTalk|Tone, Words, and the Power We Hold in a Conversation
Real Talk with Lady Flava Tone, Words, and the Power We Hold in a Conversation One thing I’ve learned over the years, both in my personal life and in the workplace, is this: Tone, words, and how they are used hold real power in a conversation. Not just what we say… but how we say…
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H&W |Tapping
Have you ever noticed yourself tapping your fingers when you’re thinking, rubbing your temples when you’re stressed, or patting your chest when you’re trying to calm down? What if your body already knows something your mind is still learning? In this week’s Health & Wellness blog, I explore the benefits of EFT Tapping and Asian…
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RealTalk|Know Your People
Not everyone who listens has wisdom to offer. Some people will help you grow. Some people will help you stay stuck. Before you pour out your frustrations, ask yourself: * Does this person have good judgment? * Do they keep confidence or spread stories? * Do they challenge me to do better or encourage me…
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RealTalk|Learn to Read Between the Words
Have you ever walked away from a conversation thinking: “That’s not what I meant.” Or maybe: “That’s not what I heard.” Communication is more than words. Sometimes people are speaking from the middle of the story, and understanding requires us to slow down, listen carefully, and look beyond the surface. This week’s Real Talk explores…
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RealTalk|Changing Words To Make More Sense
As I get older, I realize some of the words I once held onto no longer fully fit my spirit. I changed: 🌻 Forgiveness into Acceptance 🌻 Happy into Peace Acceptance taught me to stop fighting reality. Peace taught me that life does not have to be perfect for me to still breathe deeply and…

