Category: A Sip of Flava
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RealTalk|Love Without Unlimited Access
Sometimes the most mature thing you can do in a relationship isn’t fixing it — it’s structuring it. You can love someone deeply and still limit their access to your peace. Today’s Relational Real Talk is about boundaries, nervous system safety, and what adult love really looks like.
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ASipOfFlava|Eighteen
They turned 18 today. I left when she was 9 — still my Nanny’s girl — and came home to a brilliant, layered, independent young woman building worlds through writing and rebuilding engines with her hands. I missed some chapters… but I’m grateful for the pages we’re writing now. Happy Birthday, Eddison. I see you.…
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RealTalk|When It’s Not in Your Scope
You ever handle a call that’s not in your scope… follow the chain of command… ask for guidance… and still end up holding it alone? After sleeping on it, I realized something about professionalism and boundaries.
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H&W|Regulating Your Body Before the World Starts Blowing
Cold outside. Windy. Feels like 27°. Before the world started blowing, I regulated my body first. Here’s how simple morning warmth changes everything.
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ASipOfFlava|Three Crows and a Windy Thursday
Three crows outside my tower window reminded me of something this windy Thursday morning… You don’t have to fly away every time life gusts. Sometimes you just lean, grip, and stay.
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ASipOf Flava|What Does Anger Look Like
Not everyone needs to raise their voice to make a point. Some of us would rather sip our Cowboy coffee, speak clearly, and let the silence do the rest. Anger might feel powerful in the moment… but calm? Calm is controlled. Calm is intentional. Calm is grown. Pull up a chair. There’s a leopard print…
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H&W|The Truth About Weight, Strength, and What Your Body Can Carry
We spend so much time thinking about losing weight. But what if the real question is: What is your body structurally designed to carry? Your knees, hips, and back are doing the work every single day. If your joints could talk, what would they say about the load you’re asking them to manage? This isn’t…
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ASipOfFlava|Cowboy Coffee & Clarity
Some mornings the body tells the truth before the mind catches up. Today, with cowboy coffee warming my hands, I realized why I’ve felt off. Disappointment has a way of settling into the muscles when trust is shaken — especially when your circle is small. But clarity tastes better than reaction. And peace still lives…
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