Category: Lady Flava Speaks Her Truth
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RealTalk|Conflict Resolution
🔥➡️🕊️ Two people yelling. No one listening. Nothing resolved. We’ve all seen it. Some of us grew up in it. Conflict is unavoidable — but chaos is optional. As adults, we have to learn that calm communication builds what anger destroys. And if we don’t understand healthy conflict resolution ourselves, we cannot teach it to…
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RealTalk|Brain vs Mind
We’re speaking English… So why does it sometimes feel like a foreign language? Ever had a conversation where the words were clear — but the meaning never landed? This week I’ve been thinking about brain vs. mind. How we’re shaped by different communities, cultures, environments — and how that wiring affects the way we hear,…
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ASipOfFlava|Why I’ve Been Quiet
Not everyone understands why I’ve grown quiet. Why I’m not out and about. Why I’m not constantly calling or texting. Why I seem content inside my own space. But this season isn’t about disappearing. It’s about healing. Vegas was loud. Coming home was necessary. And rebuilding doesn’t require an audience. I’m not pulling away from…
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RealTalk|Where Do We Feel Safe Anymore?
Lately, I’ve been thinking about what it really means to feel safe — not just in the world, but in our everyday lives. In our homes. Our work. Our relationships. This is a reflection on quiet vigilance, discernment, and choosing where we can finally exhale.
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RealTalk|Lady Flava Shifted
There was a time when my world was loud, fast, and filled with promoting others. That season mattered. But this one is different. Today, I’m choosing quiet, healing, and telling my own story — and that feels right.
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RealTalk|The Impact of ICE Enforcement on Our Communities
Fear changes how people move through the world. Right now, many in our neighboring communities are navigating daily life with anxiety — avoiding schools, hospitals, and even simple walks down the street. This Real Talk looks at the very real impact the fear of ICE enforcement is having on families, health, education, and what it…
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H&W|Gentle Signs the Body May Be Near the End of Life
Sometimes the hardest part isn’t letting go — it’s not understanding what’s happening. When a loved one is in their 80s or 90s and pain increases, bodies change, and comfort becomes the priority, knowledge can ease fear. This is a gentle look at the signs that a body may be slowing down, why pain can…
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RealTalk| It Was One of Those Days
Some days don’t need fixing. They just need to be put down gently. Today was one of those days—the kind where your body speaks louder than words and rest becomes the only honest response. Letting go isn’t weakness. It’s listening.
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RealTalk/H&W|What Surgery Fixes — and What Healing Still Needs
Surgery can fix what’s broken — but healing doesn’t stop there. Through lived experience, patient conversations, and listening to my own body, I’ve learned how breath, warmth, gentle movement, and a calm nervous system play a powerful role in recovery. This isn’t about choosing one over the other. It’s about honoring both. Because when we…
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