Category: Lady Flava Speaks Her Truth
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ATasteOfFlava|The Break Through |Maybe It’s Time To Live Again
Some mornings hit differently. Not because life suddenly became easy… but because hope quietly returned. After weeks of pain, frustration, pushing through, and finally accepting help, today feels softer. Calmer. Clearer. I’m learning that healing sometimes begins the moment you stop pretending you’re okay and allow yourself to move toward relief. One cloudy Seattle morning…
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RealTalk|Wisdom
What truly makes a person wise? Is it intelligence? Age? Education? Life experience? In today’s Monday Real Talk with Lady Flava, I explore the difference between knowledge and wisdom… and why some of the wisest people are not the loudest voices in the room. ✨ Emotional regulation ✨ Deep empathy ✨ Intellectual humility ✨ Integrity…
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H&W|Next Hip Replacement Surgery?
Sometimes our bodies force us to slow down long before our minds are ready. The last two weeks I felt hopeful starting a new physical therapy journey… but instead of feeling stronger, my body started reacting in ways that left me discouraged, uncomfortable, and uncertain about what the next step should be. Today’s Monday H&W…
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H&W|Eating Better Starts with Preparing Better
🌻 Health & Wellness with Flava: Eating Better Starts with Preparing Better Let me be real with you… Flava needs a new routine. Most mornings, I’m pushing myself just to get out the door — grabbing whatever’s closest, whether it’s a couple mini muffins or something that barely qualifies as breakfast. And let’s be honest… that’s…
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RealTalk|Pouring Into Your Craft
Pouring Into Your Craft — and Knowing When to Step Back When I look back, I can see how intense and motivated I was. Lady Flava wasn’t accidental — she was built. I pushed myself to learn, to pay attention, to absorb what I wanted to master. When something didn’t click, I’ll be honest —…
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ATasteOfFlava|My Body is Struggling 🙁
Sometimes the hardest thing to admit is that your body is struggling while your mind is still trying to stay strong. Today’s A Taste of Flava is raw, honest, and personal. I talk about pain, discouragement, physical therapy, finally accepting that I needed a walker, and what it feels like when you think you’re making…
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A Taste of Flava|My Blog Is a Time Capsule
A Taste of Flava My Blog Is a Time Capsule Lately I’ve been thinking about something that makes me grateful for the time I spend writing. My blog has quietly become a time capsule. When we move through life, most people only see certain versions of us. Our children know us as mom. Co-workers know…
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RealTalk|Grief Isn’t One Size Fits All
Grief Isn’t One Size Fits All Let’s talk about grief—really talk about it. Grief is not just about death. It’s about loss. And loss shows up in many forms. It can be the passing of a loved one. It can be the loss of health, independence, a relationship, a job, or the life you thought…
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RealTalk|Your Foundation Matters More Than You Think
This weekend I finally realized something important: My standards, values, and strong reactions to life did not come out of nowhere. They were planted in me by the people who raised, mentored, protected, and guided me. Monday’s Real Talk is about: 🌻 foundation 🌻 legacy 🌻 integrity 🌻 family complexity 🌻 community influence 🌻 healing…

