Category: Lady Flava
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ASipOfFlava|Three Crows and a Windy Thursday
Three crows outside my tower window reminded me of something this windy Thursday morning… You don’t have to fly away every time life gusts. Sometimes you just lean, grip, and stay.
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RealTalk|Conflict Resolution
🔥➡️🕊️ Two people yelling. No one listening. Nothing resolved. We’ve all seen it. Some of us grew up in it. Conflict is unavoidable — but chaos is optional. As adults, we have to learn that calm communication builds what anger destroys. And if we don’t understand healthy conflict resolution ourselves, we cannot teach it to…
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H&W|Caring for an Aging Loved One: What Should Concern You?
Caregiving is love in motion. Sometimes the signs are subtle — less water, more confusion, trouble getting out of a chair. Sometimes they’re louder — breathing changes, sudden weakness, loss of appetite. Not every change is an emergency. But patterns matter. If you care for someone aging, this is your reminder: paying attention is not…
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ASipOf Flava|What Does Anger Look Like
Not everyone needs to raise their voice to make a point. Some of us would rather sip our Cowboy coffee, speak clearly, and let the silence do the rest. Anger might feel powerful in the moment… but calm? Calm is controlled. Calm is intentional. Calm is grown. Pull up a chair. There’s a leopard print…
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RealTalk|Creativity| It Has to Grab Me Now
I used to live inside creative communities. Now I live inside the experience. At this stage in my life, art doesn’t have to impress me. It doesn’t have to be complicated. It doesn’t have to be layered with noise. It just has to connect. Whether it’s a painting, a voice in an audiobook, or a…
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ASipOfFlava|Cowboy Coffee & Clarity
Some mornings the body tells the truth before the mind catches up. Today, with cowboy coffee warming my hands, I realized why I’ve felt off. Disappointment has a way of settling into the muscles when trust is shaken — especially when your circle is small. But clarity tastes better than reaction. And peace still lives…
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RealTalk|Who Are The People You Spend The Most Time With?
The people you spend the most time with are shaping you — whether you realize it or not. This isn’t about judging anyone. It’s about awareness. Are your closest relationships stretching you forward… or keeping you comfortable where you are? At some point on the healing journey, we all have to take inventory. Not to…
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